
I’m Kayla Sox, and I’m not a dentist. I’m a tired mom who got hit with a sharp toothache on a Saturday night. You know what? It felt like a drum in my jaw. Of course, the dentist was closed. So I reached for the simple things in my kitchen and bathroom shelf. For an even more detailed play-by-play of that long night, you can check out my full weekend toothache diary where I broke down every product and step I used.
Here’s what helped me get through the night—and the next day—until I could get real care.
The quick backstory: a popcorn trap
It started after a movie at home. Big bowl of popcorn. Big mistake. By midnight, my back molar throbbed. I flossed with Oral-B Glide. Nothing at first. Then I went slow along the gum line and—boom—out slid a tiny, mean popcorn husk. I actually laughed from relief. But the gum still felt sore and angry. So I did a few safe, natural things that took the edge off.
Warm saltwater rinse (so simple, so solid)
I used Morton sea salt. Half a teaspoon in a cup of warm water. Swish for 30 seconds. Spit. Repeat a few times that night and again in the morning.
It tasted like the ocean, but the gum calmed down. The rinse felt clean and gentle, like a hug for angry tissue.
Tip: keep it warm, not hot. Hot water made my tooth pulse more.
Clove oil, but not straight—please don’t
I’ve tried the old “clove oil on a Q-tip” trick before. Straight clove oil burns. So I diluted it.
What I used:
- Aura Cacia Clove Bud oil (1 tiny drop)
- Nutiva coconut oil (about a teaspoon as the carrier)
- Cotton swab
I mixed it in a spoon, then dabbed it on the gum near the sore tooth. It tasted like a spicy bakery and numbed the area for about 20–30 minutes. I repeated it twice that evening. Small amounts only. Don’t swallow it. And don’t use on kids. If you want a quick rundown of the evidence and safety tips, this clove oil for toothache guide goes deep into why it works.
Was it perfect? No. But it took the edge off enough to rest.
Cold outside, calm inside
I wrapped a bag of frozen peas in a dish towel and held it to my cheek for 10 minutes on, 10 minutes off. That cooled the beat in my jaw. I also sipped room-temp water and skipped sweets that day. Cold soda made it zing. Not fun.
While I waited for each 10-minute break from the ice pack, I needed a quick distraction from the throbbing pain. I ended up scrolling through Sugar Daddy Chat, a laid-back online space where lighthearted conversations can pull your focus away from discomfort, giving you a welcome mental breather until it’s time for the next round of cold therapy. If chatting online isn’t your style and you’re close to Manhattan, loosening tight shoulder and neck muscles with a soothing massage can also dull overall tension—scroll through the listings on Rubmaps Chelsea for up-to-date hours, pricing, and real customer feedback so you can pick a relaxing spot fast and keep the stress (and tooth pain) from spiking.
Peppermint tea bag trick
I brewed a Yogi Peppermint tea bag, let it cool till warm, squeezed it out, and set the damp bag on my gum for a few minutes. It felt fresh and mild. Not magic, but soothing. Think cozy blanket for the mouth.
What didn’t help me (and kinda stung)
- Garlic paste on the gum: burned, lingered, made me mad. Never again.
- Turmeric paste: messy, turned my sink yellow, no real relief.
- Chewing on the sore side: made the ache spike. I switched to soft food and the other side.
The next business day: I saw my dentist
Natural stuff got me through the weekend. On Monday, my dentist checked it. He found irritated gum from the popcorn husk and a tiny cavity starting nearby. He cleaned it up and placed a small filling. That fixed the root issue. Relief-relief, not just “numb for now.”
So yes—these remedies helped. But they were a short bridge, not the final fix.
Quick safety notes I follow now
- If you have face swelling, fever, bad taste or pus, trouble swallowing or breathing, or pain that wakes you and won’t let up—get urgent dental care.
- Clove oil must be diluted. Keep away from little kids and eyes.
- Don’t put aspirin on the gum. It can burn the tissue.
- Rinses are for swishing and spitting, not drinking.
My tiny “tooth calm” kit
When my jaw acts up, here’s what I keep on hand:
- Morton sea salt
- Oral-B Glide floss
- Soft toothbrush (Curaprox 5460 is gentle)
- Aura Cacia Clove Bud oil + coconut oil for dilution
- A gel ice pack (or, let’s be real, frozen peas)
- Peppermint tea bags
It’s simple and cheap. And it saves me from late-night panic.
If you'd rather buy a pre-assembled, natural oral-care bundle instead of hunting down each item, take a peek at Arenaturals where they offer tooth-soothing kits that mirror these basics.
Final take
Did these natural things cure my tooth? No. They helped me sleep and think straight till I could get a real fix. For me, the winners were warm saltwater, diluted clove oil, cold compress, and careful flossing. Nothing fancy. Just steady, kind care.
If your tooth hurts, try the safe stuff above, then see your dentist soon. Pain is a signal—not a personality trait. And popcorn husks? They’re tiny villains. I’m still gonna eat popcorn, though. I just keep my floss nearby.

